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Women Should Decide Over Their Bodies
My body is my body and I should be the only one making decisions about it.
When I was 13, my father gave me several informative pamphlets on sexuality, safe sex, AIDS, and pregnancy. His advice, "be smart."
Fortunately, having access to contraceptives was not an issue for me then, and it's not an issue now. (Not that I started having sex at 13).
When I was an adolescent, I bought condoms at the pharmacy or the store. I was always prepared, even though I didn't have sex until I was almost 18.
At 22, I decided to get an Intrauterine Device to prevent pregnancy. The IUD has been my preferred contraceptive method while being in monogamous relationships.
When I was ready to have kids, at age 34, I had my IUD removed. I became a mother because I wanted to be one.
Throughout my pregnancy, I had access to excellent medical care. Both my child and I were monitored regularly.
I took pre-natal courses, and my obstetrician patiently answered all my questions. She validated my fears and addressed them.
When the time came to deliver my son, my midwife and doctor stuck to my birth plan. They kept me informed at all times, and I decided what was best for my baby and me.
